“A goal is a dream
with a deadline.”
Napoleon Hill
“Ah, but a man's
reach should exceed his grasp, or what's a heaven for?”
Robert Browning
Lately it has felt, to me, that I
haven’t given my blogs the attention they deserve. Oh, I’m still writing, but I’m doing it to meet my goal,
rather than from a place of rest and focus. I’ve taken on several goals this summer, and so one or two
of them may suffer. All that is
required to resolve this is being aware of the problem and then solving
it. To solve it I decided not to
condemn or criticize myself. Yes,
I am doing other things besides writing blogs, but they are good things,
investments in my financial, emotional, and spiritual future. I have absolutely no regrets about how
I’ve spent my time. Regrets only
serve to reinforce undesirable behavior.
I’ve used my time well on other things.
Now, however, none
of those other things require my attention, so I have a goal for today.
I would like to write five blogs today.
This is not a goal
for every day, only for today. It
will be challenging, but I think it will also be fun. Here are the possible obstacles:
·
An unexpected but unavoidable interruption from a loved
one
·
Allowing myself to be distracted by non-essentials like
online games
·
Telling myself I can’t do this.
On Monday, June 9,
2014, I set a goal of writing 100 blogs by Monday, July 28, 2014. I’ve written 43 so far. Writing 5 more will get me almost half
way to my goal. Again, this may
not work. I was just informed that
I need to take care of something that will take at least two hours. While I am taking care of that I want
to be present and joyful. But I
also want to be done quickly so I can get back to my reading and writing.
Why have I chosen
this goal for today?
The first reason,
as I said, is that I don’t feel I’ve been giving my writing the attention it
deserves. I’ve allowed other
priorities. I have no regrets, but
I want to be vigilant and not let writing opportunities pass.
The second reason
is that I believe writing is part of my Purpose. Professional writers say that three to six hours should be
dedicated to this on a daily basis.
I’m at about two to two-and-a-half hours a day. So I have work to do. The trick is to get up earlier,
something I’m not always successful at.
Another trick is to bring a journal with me wherever I go. This I can do easily.
It’s also
important that I read a lot. This
I can also do.
Probably the most
important thing I can do is stay focused.
When it’s time to write or read, that’s what I need to be doing. I do not need to be playing online
games. I need to get this
done.
Purpose requires
focus and self-discipline. Yes,
it’s fun. Yes, it’s a
blessing. Yes, it brings inner
healing. But all of that happens
only to the degree to which I stay focused on my work. If focus were a muscle, it would be one
that I need to strengthen. That’s
why I’m setting my goal of five blogs today. It’s difficult and that’s what makes it worthwhile. The worst that can happen is that I
don’t reach my goal. But even if I
only write four blogs today, or three, I’m further ahead than I would have been
without this goal.
A secret to
effective goal setting is to make them just a little bit out of reach, so that
I really have to stretch myself.
So now I’m looking
forward to my day. Anything that
occurs that keeps me from my goal will be a challenge, not an interruption or
an annoyance. I will enjoy what
the day brings because my day has a goal.
It almost doesn’t even matter if I reach that goal. It will be fun to have it and to do my
best to reach it. It will be fun
to Get Started and to Keep Going…and reach my goal.
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