"From this
point on, the race's advancement will come from the efforts of its
individuals."
Shelby Steele
Sometimes we turn a corner. There’s a difference
between understanding something intellectually, even being able to discuss it,
and really experiencing and knowing something. Yesterday it felt like the latter happened to me. And it’s not the first time. I’ve written about my struggles with
organization and clutter. This is
a problem I’ve had all my life.
Then I heard T. Harv Eker say, “I won’t work with someone who has a
messy car.”
The next day, and
for the next few days, I cleaned out my car. Then I cleaned my garage and then my work area. I threw away, gave away, sold, or
recycled literally hundreds of items.
I’ve done this before. Once
I worked for four nights in a row, from 10:00 p.m. to 2:00 a.m. completely
organizing the office space in my classroom. It looked great…for about two weeks. Soon it was back to its previous
cluttered look. And it stayed that
way until I left that job. So what
makes this time different? Won’t I
soon go back to my old habits? No.
What’s different
this time is this: I visualized,
in my deepest heart, what my life could look like if it were more
organized. I visualized a clean
trunk, glove compartment, and garage.
That’s something I’ve never done.
There was, in my mind, an instant understanding of what I needed to do.
It wasn’t
intellectual. It wasn’t about tips
or systems or structures to get and stay organized. I’m not against those things, but I needed something
deeper. And it came to me in an
instant. I stopped telling myself,
“I might need this some day,” and began freeing myself of clutter and stuff.
At the moment, my
trunk and glove compartment could stand a little work, but it would only take
three minutes, not three hours, as it once did.
Then yesterday, I
visualized something else – my future home. It’s white and spacious and beautiful. It has books. It’s clean. I realized again, in an instant, that I would
not only have to do things differently; I would have to be a different
person. I would have to go to the
next level. (On a serendipitous
note, one of my daughters is on a softball team called “The Next Level.”)
What does “the
next level” mean? It means exactly
what it says. There is a level of
life, financially, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. We can be at a lower level before, due to a
lack of maturity, wisdom, or experience, but through growth and work, it's possible to move up. To get more out of
life, you have to move up again. This means the following:
·
Have a clear picture in my head about
what I want.
·
Begin treating fear as nothing more
than a thought, instead of a reality.
·
Stop entertaining any and all negative
thought patterns, especially irritations or disappointments.
·
Keep your mind focused on what you want,
rather than what you don’t want.
·
Trade old thoughts for new ones.
·
Stop complaining.
·
Stop complaining.
·
Stop complaining.
·
Take care of yourself so you can live a
long life and fulfill your mission.
·
Take risks.
·
Get Started and Keep Going.
Get
to next level. It took me a long
time to get where I am now. It
took courage and patience and mistakes. I’m glad I’m here, but I’m not meant to
stay here. Neither are you. There is world of
promise out there. Others have it
and you can, too. If you don’t get
what you want, then it may be because you have chosen to stay at a certain level. Maybe one day that will be okay, but
today it isn’t. The next level is
waiting. It’s time to Get Started
and Keep Going…to the next level.
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