“Go back?" he thought.
"No good at all! Go sideways? Impossible! Go forward? Only thing to do! On
we go!" So up he got, and trotted along with his little sword held in
front of him and one hand feeling the wall, and his heart all of a patter and a
pitter.”
J.R.R. Tolkien, The
Hobbit
The next level is just that: it’s the next level. This means two things. First, it means that whatever was being
done before, no matter how good, can be, and probably should be, improved. This can be a blow to the ego. It may feel like an insult or a
repudiation of all past efforts.
It’s not those things necessarily, but it may feel like it. Of course, being pushed to the next
level may not need to feel harsh at all.
It may be an affirmation of all
past efforts. You can’t reach one
the next level without reaching and surpassing previous levels. You can’t skip steps.
You can’t jump to the top of the mountain; you have to climb. That’s what you’ve been doing all
along. You’ve worked hard to get
where you are. It wasn’t easy, but
you got there. Then why is it time
to move forward and how do you know it’s time to move forward?
You find yourself
bored.
The work is still
important, but there is less challenge and thus less stimulation. Things are not just familiar, they’re
becoming commonplace. The work is
becoming almost too easy and, curiously, this causes more stress than when it was
more difficult. The easy life is
not always the good life.
Something needs to change. In Wisdom of
the Desert, Thomas Merton writes this:
There
are two things which a monk ought to hate above all, for by hating them, he can
become free in this world. An easy life and vain glory.
This may not
require a complete overhaul. It
doesn’t mean you have to quit your job, end your relationships, or sell the
house and move to Bolivia. It
might mean going deeper into what you already know and what you already
have. There are often unplumbed
and unexplored depths to any subject, any relationship, or any job. Imagine, for example, learning
something new about a friend you’ve known for years, or discovering a passage
in a book you’ve read before, or hearing a familiar song in a new way. Growth, like the ocean, is vast, but
it’s also very deep. It’s
beautiful, but it can also be frightening.
Fear is the other
piece of going to the next level.
The next level is not only the next level; it’s a new level. “New” means different, unfamiliar,
uncharted, unknown. You could get
lost. You could die. Worse than death, you might have to
turn back in defeat and humiliation.
What if you just don’t have what it takes? “New” could mean all those things. Or it could mean discoveries, insights, and growth. It could mean finding whole new worlds
externally and internally. Growth
can bring pain, but it can also bring joy. Growth, like the ocean is deep, but it’s also very vast.
The next level is
inevitable until death. Refusing
to move to the next level, invites death much earlier, sometimes
literally. The only way to get to
the next level is to Get Started and Keep Going. If you do, you will find yourself at the next level.
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